Ready To Live With A Doll(s) As A Sexual Playmate and Companion?

Through my readings and research, I have seen a couple of films about men and women who choose to live with costumized dolls as a companion and sexual playmate. I thought it was interesting how each of us differ from each other. Since The Pleasure Place came to being, I have learned not to be judgmental and prejudiced and to respect people’s diverse desires.

There is a company in Great Britain that takes orders on such dolls. They are made of porcelain and priced from $10,000 and up depending on the client’s specifications. These would include color of skin, height, weight, chest size and expression of facial features. Several pieces of oral, vaginal and anal passages are also included.

Let me recall the story of four different individuals/couples:

There was Sam, a computer scientist in his late twenties, who lives in Florida with his parents. He was not exactly good looking and looked rather thin. Actually, he struck me as someone who was shy and closeted. His parents accepted their son chose to live with a doll because they knew he was happy and fulfilled. He came home daily as if coming home to a wife/girlfriend. He chose a white doll with a voluptuous body and big round eyes. Let’s call her Samantha. Samantha shared his bed and his room looked liked it was filled with Samantha’s clothes, shoes, wigs, perfume, make-up. Samantha also joined them at the dinner table for a family dinner nightly. Sam claimed he loved her fully and would feel lost without her. He dresses her up in different sexy attires and wigs. He even lines her round eyes with black kohl and color her lips with the fiercest red shades. Samantha is his idea of a lifetime companion. Sam will have sex with Samantha daily and she will never complain no matter the time of day. He hugs and embraces her often, kisses her on the lips constantly telling her he loves her.

Then there was Mark and Mary, a married couple who lives in Great Britian.  Both were employed and enjoyed a great marriage. Let’s call their doll companion Laila. Laila was a dark haired beauty, perhaps one of the many wigs she donned at the time of the interview. She, like Samantha had a voluptuous body dressed beneath a ruffled top. They were interviewed while at the dinner table. Mark and Mary shared their bed with Laila and never failed to invite her to sit down with them at every meal. Mary was more attached to Laila than Mark and always insisted that Laila sit on her right every mealtime.

Let me tell you what I recalled about Ed. He worked as a lab scientist. Ed was never married and just lost his mother and was extremely depressed. He could not touch his mother’s possessions and kept her room exactly the way it was while she was alive. He would go in daily and dust off the dirt. He tried dating a few ladies but they would end up breaking his heart or take advantage of him. Then he heard of a guy who fabricated dolls and he decided to buy one and immediately found comfort in Shiela as a daily companion. He would dress her up conservatively and take rides with him to the supermarkets all dressed up with make-up. He enjoys shopping for Shiela in the ladies’ department for an assortment of lingerie, wigs, shoes, undies, daily changes and even perfume. A special trip would be to take Shiela with him in an airplane ride since Ed was an amateur pilot and loved to fly whenever the weather permitted. He felt completely fulfilled and found the perfect wife and companion in Shiela.

Finally, there was Tom. He was in his early 30’s, unattractive and was pockmarked with long dirty looking hair. He had a job of some sort but I can’t recall what it is he did.  He lived alone. He hated it when women chatted constantly and had too much to say on any one subject. He preferred them to stay quiet and to be obliging at all times. He had a few relationships but every woman took advantage of him. One borrowed a huge sum of money telling him she needed it to move to a new place. They dated a couple of times and she never showed up when he gave her the loan. One even told him he was ugly. Tom was different in the sense that he needed multiple dolls and introduced us to three while interviewed. He liked them to dress up ladylike and sat them down side by side on the sofa with him while watching television. He did not like them to have shoes on for according to him, shoes turned him off. They watched television a lot while he drank beer and one of the dolls would sit across his lap. Tom said the best part was the ladies were never jealous of each other and would indulge on his every whim and desire.

It’s up to you, my readers, to surmise what possible reasons why these individuals chose dolls as their companions and sexual playmates. I had not placed much thought on this subject until a couple of my clients at The Pleasure Place confided they were ready to have a doll as a third party on a sexual level. One girl was ready for a third party to have fun with her boyfriends but did not want to have another human playmate. Another heterosexual couple had a female playmate for a year and left them brokenhearted when she left to join another couple. It took them some time to recover from her absence. Which reinforces again and again that sex is universal and the people in the Philippines is not exempt to the world’s  diverse sexual pleasures.

Hundreds of Filipino couples I have talked to are already engaged in a threesone and group sex. They come in to share their stories with me. They are regular folks with ordinary lives. Some claim their children are grown and it’s time for them to enjoy themselves. One group of 6 couples have been practicing group sex for 5 years and keeps the group intact and private, unwilling to accept new couples. They have found excitement among themselves and did not want to shatter their perfect set-up. One of the ladies come in occasionally to purchase sexy lingerie for their sessions. I have not seen her though for over a year or missed her if she did visit.

Perhaps, for that lady who came in and wanted me to write about dolls stating her boyfriend and she are ready for a third party in the form of a doll might have something exciting lined up for themselves after all – for they are not alone. Perhaps, it’s the fear of emotional entanglement if they chose a third party in another human being. A doll would seem like a safe alternative.

We are not to judge others, however diverse their desires might be – allowing each of us to be true to our own desires is the only way to ultimate fulfillment and happiness.

I promise to be in touch sooner than you think with another interesting subject.